𝟏𝟎 𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐎𝐍𝐒 𝐅𝐑𝐎𝐌 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐁𝐎𝐎𝐊 "𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐈𝐍𝐅𝐋𝐔𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐀𝐋 𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐃" 𝐁𝐘 𝐓𝐀𝐋𝐈 𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐑𝐎𝐓

1. Emotions Drive Decisions

Logical arguments alone rarely change minds. Emotional appeals are far more effective because they resonate deeply with human psychology.

2. The Power of Optimism

People are naturally optimistic and tend to focus on positive outcomes. Tailoring your message to highlight benefits rather than risks can be more persuasive.

3. Social Influence is Key

Humans are inherently social creatures. Highlighting what others are doing or think can motivate behavior change.

4. The Role of Reciprocity

People are more likely to be influenced by someone who has helped or supported them. Building trust and offering value first increases your persuasive power.

5. The Brain’s Love for Certainty

Ambiguity creates discomfort. Providing clear, definitive information increases the likelihood of your message being accepted.

6. Surprise is Memorable

Surprising information grabs attention and sticks in people’s minds, making it a powerful tool for influencing thought.

7. Fear is Less Effective Than Hope

Fear-based messages often backfire, leading to denial or disengagement. Highlighting hope and solutions is generally more effective.

8. Align with Core Beliefs

Messages that with people’s existing values and beliefs are more likely to be embraced. Disrupting core beliefs can trigger resistance.

9. Actionable Steps Matter

Influence is not just about changing minds; it’s also about motivating action. Providing clear steps makes people more likely to follow through.

10. Personal Connection Enhances Persuasion

Personal stories and relatable examples engage the audience on an emotional level, making the message more compelling and memorable.

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Dr Ibrahim Peyon: Masyarakat Subsisten di Romba Kapitalis

Waktu penelitian di Sebyar, Kab. Bintuni, kami keliling mengumpulkan data di kampung-kampung seperti Taroi, Weriagar, Kali Tami, Tomu, Ekam dan Rejosari. Suatu hari saya bertemu untuk melakukan indep interview dengan seorang kepala suku yang cukup berpengaruh di Tomu, bernama Aci Kosepa. Ia mengatakan berbagai perusahaan dan kapitalis datang perkosa anak gadis Sebyar yang masih perawan. Gadis Sebyar perawan ini menunjuk Gas dan Minyak terbesar yang diambil oleh perusahaan milik Inggris bernama proyek LNG Tangguh Britis Petrolium (LNG-BP).  

Dalam penelitian kedua tinggal di suatu penginapan milik satu keluarga Makasar yang tinggal lama di Rejosari, ibu kota distrik Sebyar, salah satu informan kunci yang saya wawancara adalah Sadam Kosepa, ia mengatakan kepada saya: Anak perusahaan-perusahaan ini seperti Malaria tersiana yang mau mengisap darah kami semua dan kami mati secara berlahan. Mereka datang dan sengaja membunuh kami orang Papua ini secara tidak langsung, setelah itu kami mati secara berlahan dan mereka akan menguasai tanah dan kekayaan kami ini".  

Suatu hari, saya melakukan wawancara mendalam dengan beberapa informan dari masyarat Nebes yang tinggal di suatu kampung di belakang Rejosari, mereka mengatakan kami ini seperti cacing yang merayap dan memakan ampas-ampas sagu yang dibungut dari monopoli perusahaan Sagu yang peroperasi di Rejosari ini. Perusahaan ini larang kami ambil sagu di hutan dan hanya boleh ambil di perusahaan ini dengan harga yang mahal. Sebelum perusahaan ini datang, kami mencari makan bebas, orang Sebyar memberikan kami kebebasan untuk berburu, menangkap ikan, dan menokok sagu, dan buat kebun. Tapi, situasi sekarang sangat susah. 

Dalam penelitian yang ketiga, saya tinggal di rumahnya bapak David Bauw di kampung Weriagar dan Mogotira, dan suatu malam saya bertanya kepada beliau tentang sejarah asal usul klan-klan di kampung ini. Dia menjelaskan asal usul semua klan di sana dan klannya sendiri yang menyatakan keluar dari dalam tanah di Pasuweri dengan bawa semua kekayaan di wilayah itu. Salah satunya kekayaannya, sumur minyak yang dioperasikan oleh sebuah perusahaan bernama conoco di tempat itu. Tetapi, semua kekayaan ini kini dicuri dan dirampok oleh kapitalis dan kelompok konglomerasi lain, semua dibawa ke luar dari Sebyar.

Dalam penelitian yang pertama, ke kampung Taroi dua minggu di sini dan kemudian pindah dan tinggal dua hari di Magarina, sebuah kampung kecil tempat penghasilan terbesar udang dan lokasi dusun sagu. Tiap hari berbagai jenis kapal-kapal masuk di sini, untuk mengabil udang dan dipasarkan secara nasional dan internasional. Kapal-kapal ini beli udang dari masyarakat Rp. 2.000 per kg dan mereka jual ke tempat tujuan dengan harga 10 kali lipat. 

Mereka mengatakan, kekayaan kami banyak dan berlimpah, tetapi kami tidak berdaya. Berbagai perusahaan datang dan ambil hasil kami, mereka menjadi untung dan menjadi besar. Kami orang Sebyar, hidup masih tetap sama, kini kami menjadi buruh dan budak-budak orang asing di tanah kami sendiri.

Dalam suatu penelitian terpisah kami tim peneliti dari Babo menuju sebuah pulau kecil bernama Amuti, di tempat itu beroperasi sebuah perusahaan kayu Mangrove untuk produksi kertas, di sini kami temukan suatu fakta yang sangat mengerikan, dimana para pekerja yang umumnya orang Papua mayoritas dari kepala burung dan keluarga mereka tinggal di beberapa parak dan makan bersama seperti asrama besar. Mereka terkurung di sini, perusahaan tidak memberikan ijin mereka kembali ke kampung atau mengunjungi keluarga. Anak-anak usia sekolah tidak bersekolah dan tinggal di sini. Meskipun, temuan ini tidak ditulis dalam buku ini, tetapi akan muncul dalam jilid berikunya.   

Kesimpulkan dari kehidupan yang digambarkan oleh orang-orang Sebyar itu, dirangkum dalam tema: Masyarakat Subsisten di Rumba Kapitalis.

The Power of Writing It Down: A Simple Habit to Unlock Your Brain and Reimagine Your Life

"The Power of Writing It Down: A Simple Habit to Unlock Your Brain and Reimagine Your Life" by Allison Fallon is an inspiring guide that emphasizes the transformative power of writing as a tool for self-discovery and personal growth. Fallon draws from her own experiences and the stories of others to illustrate how the act of writing can help individuals process their thoughts, clarify their emotions, and unlock their potential.

In the book, Fallon presents writing not merely as a creative outlet but as a practical habit that can lead to significant changes in one’s life. She offers actionable strategies and prompts to encourage readers to engage in regular writing practices, whether through journaling, free writing, or structured exercises. Fallon highlights how writing can serve as a means of introspection, helping individuals to confront their fears, dreams, and desires.

Through her compassionate approach, Fallon aims to empower readers to embrace their stories and cultivate a deeper understanding of themselves. "The Power of Writing It Down" serves as a practical roadmap for anyone seeking to harness the therapeutic benefits of writing and to reimagine their lives through the written word.

10 Key Lessons

1. Writing as a Tool for Clarity: Utilize writing to gain clarity on your thoughts and emotions; putting pen to paper can help you understand your feelings more deeply.

2. Embrace the Process: Recognize that writing is a journey; the act of writing itself can lead to self-discovery, regardless of the outcome.

3. Regular Practice is Key: Establish a consistent writing habit; regular writing fosters creativity and allows for continuous personal reflection.

4. Confront Your Fears: Use writing to explore and confront your fears; articulating your fears on paper can reduce their power over you.

5. Document Your Dreams: Write down your goals and aspirations; putting your dreams into words makes them more tangible and achievable.

6. Celebrate Your Story: Acknowledge the importance of your personal narrative; embracing your story can empower you and foster self-acceptance.

7. Process Emotions Through Writing: Engage in writing to process difficult emotions; expressing your feelings can provide relief and clarity during challenging times.

8. Writing Prompts can Spark Creativity: Use writing prompts to inspire creativity; structured exercises can help overcome writer's block and ignite new ideas.

9. Reflect on Growth: Regularly review your writing to reflect on personal growth; tracking your thoughts over time can reveal patterns and insights.

10. Share Your Voice: Don’t be afraid to share your writing with others; expressing your voice can foster connection and inspire those around you.

"The Power of Writing It Down" illustrate the profound impact that writing can have on personal growth and self-awareness. Allison Fallon’s encouraging perspective empowers readers to embrace the act of writing as a means of unlocking their potential and reimagining their lives. The book serves as a valuable resource for anyone looking to explore their inner thoughts and create meaningful change through the written word.

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Become Who You Were Born to Be

Have you ever wondered if you’re truly living the life you were created for — or if you’re only scratching the surface of your real potential?

In Become Who You Were Born to Be, Dr. Myles Munroe challenges readers to look inward and recognize the untapped greatness within them.

He asks a powerful question: What if the world is waiting for you to discover — and deliver — the gifts only you were designed to offer?

Through powerful insights, personal stories, and faith-centered wisdom, Dr. Munroe calls us to reject mediocrity and step fully into the life of purpose we were meant to live.

10 Lessons from Become Who You Were Born to Be

1. Purpose Is the Key to Fulfillment

True satisfaction and meaning in life come not from possessions, status, or success — but from discovering and fulfilling your unique God-given purpose.

2. You Were Created With Intentionality

You are not an accident or a random event. You were specifically and intentionally designed to fulfill a special assignment on Earth.

3. Potential Is Buried Within You — Waiting to Be Released

Every person carries hidden talents, gifts, and dreams. Unlocking this potential requires faith, effort, and a willingness to trust the process.

4. Your Environment Should Support Your Growth

Just like seeds need the right soil to grow, you need to place yourself in environments — relationships, communities, and practices — that nurture your God-given destiny.

5. Comparison Destroys Purpose

Measuring your life against others’ achievements leads to frustration and distraction. Purpose is personal; no one else can fulfill your assignment for you.

6. Fear Is the Enemy of Destiny

Fear paralyzes potential. Dr. Munroe emphasizes that courage isn't the absence of fear — it's the decision to move forward despite it, trusting God's plan.

7. Vision Gives Life Direction

Without a clear vision, it’s easy to drift. Vision is your mental picture of the future God has prepared for you — and it becomes the compass guiding your daily choices.

8. Failures Are Lessons, Not Finalities

Mistakes are part of the journey toward becoming who you were born to be. Failure is not a label — it's feedback and redirection on the path to fulfillment.

9. Service to Others Unlocks Greatness

True purpose is never selfish. When you use your gifts to serve and uplift others, you walk in the fullness of who you are meant to be.

10. Your Life Should End Empty of Potential

Dr. Munroe famously taught that the wealthiest place in the world is the graveyard — full of unfulfilled dreams and unused talents. His charge to us: Die empty. Pour out everything you were given to do, create, and give before your time is done.

Conclusion

In Become Who You Were Born to Be, Myles Munroe offers a passionate and inspiring call to live intentionally, courageously, and purposefully.

He reminds us that the greatest tragedy is not death — but a life never truly lived, a potential never fully realized.

Your gifts, talents, dreams, and calling are not just for you — they are your contribution to the world.

You were born on purpose, for a purpose.

The journey to becoming who you were created to be is not only possible — it’s necessary.

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